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A Few Things to Think About

Music

 

Many people choose to have several pieces of music at a funeral, if you choose to do so, but don't know where to begin, here are a few ideas:

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  • a favourite hymn

  • a special song to walk in to

  • a significant piece of music to be played with an audio-visual presentation of family photographs

  • a piece of music to listen to during quiet reflection

  •  a much- loved song to end the service

  • members of the family or friends performing

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Tributes

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Tributes can be made by anyone and read by whoever you wish. I am happy to read other people's tributes or take over from then during the service if necessary. Here are some tribute ideas;

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  • readings by friends, family or colleagues

  • a eulogy

  • an open mike session with refreshments following the service

  • a child's poem

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Involving Children

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Deciding whether a child should attend a funeral is a personal choice and will depend on a number of factors. This page from Bereavement Advice has some useful advice.

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If children are attending, you might want to help them take part in the service. Here are some ideas:

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  • reading poems

  • showing pictures they have made

  • playing a musical instrument or singing

  • placing flowers near the coffin or a photograph

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Other Ceremony Ideas

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There is no set format for a funeral service and I will endeavour to include whatever ideas you might have. Here are a few:

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  • Laying flowers on or near the coffin

  • Putting messages on the coffin

  • Candle lighting  (where venue allows)

  • Taking a flower as you leave.

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